HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE
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PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
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Marriage is neither a bowl of jelly nor a path lined with roses, but it can be compared to a rough river that you need all your wits to navigate until you are smoothly sailing again. “They lived happily ever after”, this is the common ending of fairy tales and subconsciously in the minds of all those who plunged into the tender trap of marriage.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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If your spouse agrees with you all the time now and has little attention of matters that used to throw them in a fit then you need to sit down together and talk about what’s wrong in order to save the marriage. If your spouse has stopped not communicate with you then then is a sign that your marriage is on the rocks. If your spouse doesn’t give you the attention that they showed you before you tied the knot then this could be a sign that your marriage is on the rocks. If your spouse forgot how important cuddling is or forgot how red roses or a box of chocolates on holiday, this could be a sign that your marriage is going down hill. Before this painful moment of truth that your spouse is leaving you, there were probably signs of your spouse’s departure beforehand. If your spouse is becoming apathetic, this could be a sign of a marriage crisis. Ertha Kitts’ song “Little Things Mean Lots” can serve as a guide on how to make your marriage work.
WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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Accepting that your marriage is on the brink could influence the future outcome between divorce and a happy union. Ask yourself, what will happen if I do nothing, if I do not change direction and if I do not change my destiny?
Before making your decision, ask yourself the following questions:What will be the true cost of a divorce? Aside from the money involved, there will be the enormous stress, many hours spent in pain and doubt, embarrassing moments with relatives and friends and a lot more. Face the problem with confidence and courage and this will change your life. A possible reaction to a marital crisis could be that you tried to control your spouse or talk your spouse into not leaving you. Take practical steps if you want to salvage your marriage.
WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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Time heals is true in most circumstances but not for a marital crisis. You should improve your communications skills to keep your marriage. The feeling of fear comes as a result of financial insecurity. Things will not work out by themselves, you have to take a hand.
HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Tell him to give you space and enough time to think things out. The two of you should have a heart to heart talk. Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair.
WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Strive to live everyday to the fullest with your spouse. Respect the privacy of your spouse. Spend weekends together to bond and do activities that you both enjoy. If you love each other, there is no barrier that can break the knot. Give your spouse space to grow and fulfill their dreams. If the problem is dealt with in a positive manner, there will be much chance of staying away from divorce, If you want to save your marriage, talk to your other half. Do not have unrealistic expectations from your spouse.
HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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You can also show him what a good cook you are and how lucky he is to have you as his partner. When marriage is at the brink of disaster it is not the right time learn more communications skills, you new knowledge will only offer you the ability to use better words to fight more often. You will be conditioning his mind on his next move. Become conscious of your body, exercise, reduce your weight, plan your diet, go to the beauty salon, the spa and buy a new dress. It is during this occasion that you will be able to talk freely about positive happenings which concern you both. Devote time each day for your spouse and let him know that he is in your thoughts all the time. When you appreciate yourself, the feeling will contaminate your husband and he will feel the same way too.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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According to statistics, there are 2 million divorces each year. The answer is positive. The quality of a marriage does not end on avoiding disagreement.
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