Say thank you for being you. Say thank you for taking care of me.
Say I didn’t like what you said, or, you hurt me.
Don’t text it. Look into each others eyes. Smile, touch, and talk to one another. You need to know what was said or done was not intended.
You’re offended, right? But, couldn’t see that through the text sent.Are you afraid when you look into your partners face, there won’t be a smile? Well, what do you see? Can you look further? Do you see the pain in their heart?Is the texting back and forth to avoid confrontations? See that’s the problem, don’t you see? Confrontations some time turn into communication, that in turn, turns into that needed confidential talk.
Understand this, texting cannot solve problems, face to face talking can. When you look at someone these looks cannot be altered. You cannot get the “We can accomplish anything together,” feeling through a text. Or, don’t be afraid if you are at the point where the relationship is not going to work. Talk it out and come to a mutual agreement.
Stop texting and don’t be afraid to talk. Yes, there may be an argument, some yelling, walking away. But, you can get the true sense of the problem. Talk it out and you may find out, the love you share you don’t truly want to loose. Misunderstandings come many, many times, talk it out, don’t make it worse by not looking in each others face. A gadget can’t solve problems, people can.