No body likes getting pulled over, let alone receiving a hefty ticket. In my times facing police officers, I’ve learned one crucial rule: show respect. I’m serious. As easy as this sounds, many people seem to overlook this simple aspect. Following this advice has saved me from two tickets already. While this might not continue to work for me, it could help if you’re dealing with your first ticket.

When the officer’s lights go off, locate the nearest SAFE location. I’m sure the cop would not mind if you drove a bit further for the sake of his/ her safety. If the cop questions what took you so long for you to pull over, just simply mention you did it for their safety. Now that you are parked on the side, roll down your window, and you can may keep your engine on or off, unless the officer specifies otherwise. Don’t reach for your papers or make any sudden movements, do everything when he asks for it. If it’s at night, turn on your inside car light, and place your hands on the wheel in plain sight. These actions show a sign of respect for the officer’s job and lets him know you are no threat.

When he approaches you, address them as either sir/ma’am or officer. Don’t show that you’re mad or give any attitude that might show you’re bitter from getting pulled over. Remember to try and not talk unless they speak first. If the officer asks you ‘Do you know why I pulled you over?’, always say no. If you say yes, it only gives them more of a reason to cite you a ticket. Avoid asking ‘Why did you pull me over?’ because you don’t want to question their authority. What people don’t know is that the police are capable of pulling you over for no reason at all.

Be honest and talk in a rational tone of voice. Officers seem to appreciate not only the honesty, but also the cooperation. If all else fails, and you know you’re about to receive a ticket, there’s nothing wrong with asking to be let off with a warning. Be sure to let the officer know that you are aware of your mistake and be sincere with the apology.

I’ve even heard shedding a tear works. Hm, I’ll let you guys know if that plays out for me next time.