There many guys out there that are pretty bad at  first dates.  For the most part,  the very best first date tips revolve around not worrying about too much. The problem many guys have if they put too much emphasis on the first date. They try take a nice fancy restaurant and make it a very special and memorable evening for.

This is great except for couple factors. The first thing is is that fancy restaurant is not comfortable for her and is not comfortable for the guy.  having a first date in such a manner means you both on edge and it is far harder to really enjoy yourself. It is far better to have first date in a far more laid-back and relaxed manner. Just meeting for drinks or coffee gives you a chance to talk to the girl for an hour or two and move on.

If it is right, it is right and you will know enough to make another date, where you can then tried to get a little more fancy. If the two of you do not mesh in any way it is better to know without wasting too much time or money and move on to the next girl.

Attraction happens fairly fast, there are ways to gain some instant sexual attraction from women but besides trying to use these methods to shortcut the situation you will need to work your way into her emotions. Trying to jump right in with the fancy first date and perhaps taking what could’ve been a good day and turning into a bad one is never the way to go.  Keep the first date light and you’ll greatly increase your chance of success on that first date.