Top 5 Tips on how to impress girls and things to avoid at all costs

1) Avoid the cheesy pickup

Don’t take the obvious approach with a girl. Avoid cheesy and clichéd lines like “has anyone ever told you that you have beautiful eyes?” This is not original or clever. A friend of mine used to approach girls in clubs with the line, “do you want to see my tattoos?” Again, very likely to put women off!

The better way to open up a conversation is to introduce yourself simply, like “Hi, I’m Sam.” Or a comment about the venue or entertainment sounds natural and not forced.

The trick is to open the conversation without raising any red flags that you are trying to pick her up (overtly). Once you have started a dialogue you need to keep her interest and hold her attention.

2) Avoid awkwardness

Girls hate awkwardness so practice your approach beforehand so that you aren’t nervous. There’s nothing worse than awkward hesitancy or embarrassing gaps in the conversation. Nervousness can also make men act crazy and goofy – this is not good.

Girls will be afraid to go out with you in case you embarrass her in front of her friends and family. Women want men they are happy to show off so drop the awkwardness and practice your social skills until you seem relaxed.

3) Over intensity is a no-no

Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of the Spanish inquisition so do not bombard the girl that you are trying to impress with multiple questions. Equally, do not regale her with detailed, long and boring stories, especially if they are very “male’, like computers or trains etc. Women want to go out with and be seen with dynamic, interesting men. Avoid tough subjects like politics and religion. Keep the whole conversation light. Tease her. Enjoy the inter-play. Tell a few jokes you think she would like. Share some personal stories.

4) Avoid being too needy or dependent

It seems obvious but in the early stages of a relationship do not call or text the woman constantly. Keep a little distance and keep the woman interested. Having a few female friends does not hurt either. Women like men who are desired by other women. So be in demand – a busy social life with lots of friends is good because there will be times when you are out and about by yourself. Don’t be too available. And don’t act like a puppy dog and try to please her all the time (at your own expense).

5) Avoid showing off and boasting

There’s a thin line between being exciting and telling some interesting stories and bragging about your life and abilities. If you brag about your job or your money or life experiences you risk turning the woman off completely. Try to be subtle about your skills and qualities. Leave some of the details out so that the woman can fill in the gaps. For instance, you could mention a previous vacation which you shared with a “friend” and the woman will probably work out that it was a former girlfriend. If you had described how hot your girlfriend looked on the beach and that she was a size zero etc, the woman would not have been impressed and might have even thought that she didn’t compare favorably with this wonder woman. Some things are better left unsaid!

If you really practice your social skills and conversation openers you will find it much easier to meet and date beautiful and interesting women.

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