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  LET OUR LOVE BE LIKE MUMTAZ AND EMPEROR SHAH JEHAN

  “Hello love”-“Darling I knew it was you.   Oh please tell me what to do.    You give me the will to go on on on...as soon as I hang up the phone.”   Yes ladies I’m here to tell you that a man can hurt just as hard and deep as a woman.   You insist on finding a good, kind, honest, caring, loving partner.   Religious if possible.   A non drinker and a non smoker.   A saint by any other name.   You are a lady with certain standards and criteria that you expect in a future spouse.   You make this quite clear in your profile.

Then you go and break all your own rules!   You come into the social site with all the requirements and expectations.   You put in place careful screening measures.   Then some guy out of the blue sweeps you off your feet.   Which is good.   You should have romance.   But you throw caution to the wind.   You let your hair down so to speak.   You lower your guard.   You lower maybe even your standards.   You abandon all restraint.    All your morals and scruples are shelved.    Sudddenly you are willing to compromise your principals.    Suddenly life has new meaning to you.   You feel you found your Prince Charming.-your Knight in Shining Armour.

How could this be.   You were ranting and raving the one minute and taking the high moral ground and the next without warning you fall to pieces over some stranger you hardly know.   You become light-headed, dizzy  and foolish.   What about the efforts of all other armours who have courted you online to date?   What about their feelings?   Decent, honest guys trying to win you over.    What kind of women do these things to men?   I don’t know you anymore.

You date this new guy.   He helps you get rid of all your inhibitions.   You do things beyond your wildest dreams and imaginings.   He has that kind of effect on you.   You happy for a while.   He ravishes you.   Captivates you.   Takes what he can get.   Makes you feel like a natural woman.   You phone him to thank him for bringing out the woman in you.   For a wonderful romance.   For an exhiliarating weekend away.   Made you do and feel things you never thought possible.   Kindled the fire in you.   Stirred up your passion.   Put an eternal glow on your dial.   Made you cross your rubicon./all boundaries.   Helped you discover your sexuality.

Then all of a sudden-BHAM!    He disappears or he breaks it off.   Now you tell me how can a sensible, level headed  woman be so easily duped?    Taken for a ride?   You refused to admit you were in the wrong.   Refuse to admit you broke your own rules.   You refuse to come off your high horse.   Refuse! Refuse! Refuse!   Yes that’s what you have become.   You have become like refuse to be thrown away.   Sorry to be so harsh.   You know what you were looking for-love and marriage, to a good solid, faithful guy.   PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH.   NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!      Hold onto your values.   Don’t throw it away for a cheap roll in the hay.    Or nite in the sack if that’s what you looking for -say so.

You’ll find honesty is the best policy.   Finding love is a two way street and we can only succeed if all parties are honest.

Thank you.

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